| googled picture of Vale de Lilís and Pico Duarte (Listindiario.com) |
A few days ago, my wife and I set off on a four days walk to Pico Duarte. Although it was very tiring at times, and exciting at other times, what impacted me the most was our last walk. The few kilometers we had to walk at 4 am from our campsite to PD made this trip unforgettable in a very hard way.
It was a 3 hrs walk from campsite to valle de Lilís (a valley located right under Pico Duarte). My wife and I were the slowests in the team so we always walked behind everyone. however for most of the hike two of our 8 friends followed us and made us company. At one point I told them that they could join the others since my wife needed time to walk all the way up to Valle de Lilís and it was going to take her some time.
The remaining walk was longer than I thought, probably one hour. We didn´t bring a thermometer but frozen dew in the grass gave me an idea of how cold it was. During our walk, Patria was falling asleep, both of us were freezing and our destination seemed farther and farther.
I decided to pray. I just started talking with God in the dark while holding my wife´s hand and slowly walked on a rocky path. As I prayed I asked God to help me walk with her for the rest of my life through the ups and downs it brings, through hot and cold climate, and that HE always gives me the energy to walk with her despite the circumstances of life. Tears started to freeze my cheeks and my throat got stuck. I couldn't´t pray anymore, So I just tried to tell God "you know what´s in my heart, help me be a husband like you are to the church".
We had to stop and share a Cliff bar I had on my pockets, so this could give her some energy. then I whistled, I got a response and finally we were sitting around the campfire with our friends. Again we set off to climb PD. We made it. I pray that we can go on this journey of marriage for the rest of our lives, holding hands, sharing everything we have and depending on one another so we can go through life.
We are taking a day of rest (super difficult for me). We are both sunburnt, my ancles hurt, 12 blisters on my feet, She rode a mule for 10 hours straight for the first time so she is exhausted. But we are both very glad we go on this walk together. IT represented our journey in life as a couple.
(in case you are the scripture focused person, Ephesians 5 was a chapter in which I kept on meditating these last five days, the whole chapter)
